Tuesday, August 19, 2025

A Little Touch of Heaven

 


God's care comes in many forms.  Fellowship is God caring enough to put people in your life to encourage, rebuke and comfort you.  Paul Tripp

Through our travels and living in a couple countries and several states I have accumulated several good quality friends.  A lot of them we have worked with in ministry and are able to pick right up on our relationship due to the Lord.  

My very first best friend growing up had no idea how important she was to my life.  We played house together, rode our bikes together. I have one memory about a bike ride we had, her driving, me on the handlebars, and crashing into a ditch.  Lots of sleep overs at her house, lots of talk about boys.  We both worked at the town skating rink on Saturday mornings, teaching kids to skate and then cleaning the skates and the rink getting it ready for the night skate.  Great memories.  

I dated a guy from my hometown, so I had a relationship with his friend too.  His family took me to church whenever I wanted to go.  We broke up and I started dating a guy from a town 15 miles away, so my friends changed too.  That guy I eventually married, moved away from all those friends and added more to my list of friends.  

All the above relationships I knew was when I was not a follower of Jesus.  It was only after I got saved, I begin to understand true friendship through Jesus.  All those childhood friend helped me in some way because I was looking for security and worth from their friendship.  Yet my heart was empty, and they could not fill the deepest need I had.  

Fast forward many years into marriage, age 35 rolled around and I put my trust in Jesus Christ for not only for salvation but for the rest of my life.  I came to know the truest friend a person could ever have, Jesus Christ. Without me telling Him, He knew all my sins, including the ones all those friends did not know about.  And, this is the best part, He still loved me and died for me. 

 God had a plan for my life that would bring Godly friends to help me grow and mature into a women of God.  I needed all of them too, women who had walked with God through hard times and knew the value of trusting Him.  We can pick right up from where we left off and be able to center our relationship on Christ.  

I still see some of my friends from my childhood when I go home for a visit.  Facebook has been the place to catch up on lives that impacted mine. Phone calls just to say hello and hear stories about their lives are great.  When we are near a former friend we try to do a face to face visit which is the best.  

There is a phrase I usually say to those after we have visited, "this has been a little touch of heaven."

That sweetness that comes with friends who know the Lord is only a little touch of heaven.  The full blown touch will come later in our heavenly home as we look face to face at the dearest friend, Jesus.  I am so grateful for friends, family who have been a part of my life and extra grateful for God bringing them into my life. 




10 comments:

  1. Big smile. This touched my heart. I think of old friends often. One in particular I am reminded of by your bowling alley story! We had a sleepover, then walked to the local bowling alley in the morning. I think the game and our shoe rental, maybe even two games, was $3.

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    1. I don't ever remember bowling when I was young or even as I aged. Amazing how prices have changed but of course so have wages. I don't think they paid us to work at the skating rink, we just got to skate free every time it was open. It was a great place to meet boys. It is wonderful to have good memories of our youth. Blessings.

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  2. The older I get, Betty, the more I realize how true friendships matter. And my relationship with Jesus is the dearest I could ever know in this life and the next. It took me a long time to come to Him, but once I did, He changed me forever. Blessings to you and I hope to see you at my blog some time. :)

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    1. Martha you are such an encouragement to read, thanks for commenting on my post. I will stop by more often as I am back to posting once a week. I am coming again out of a long health issue so had cut back on a lot of extra things. God has been encouraging me daily to reach out more with my post. Blessings

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  3. Like Martha, the older I get the more I realize how true friendships matter. While I am an extreme extrovert and have had many acquaintances, I still can count on one hand my deepest friends. One has moved on to heaven. One I have had since college (50+ years). One lives in AZ with brain cancer and unless God intervenes is not long for this world. Real, true friends are to be loved and cherished. Jesus? There is NO ONE like Him.

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    1. Bill, good to hear from you, I have missed your wisdom. I am working on getting back to posting once a week. I am an extreme extrovert too but age and health has slowed me down and I am ok with that. Yes, true friendships are the best, and I too can count on one hands my deepest friends, and so far they are all still here on earth. I have been seeing a Christian therapist for almost a year for my anxiety, and she has become a friend here in Mn. that I count as safe. My heart ache for those in their older years especially who do not have Jesus as their best friend.

      PS.. you mentioned a friend in Az. and was hoping it was not our blog friend Floyd.
      Thanks Bill for commenting, Blessings.

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    2. It is not our friend. He lives close to Floyd though (lives in Gilbert). Jo and I actually had a chance to meet and have lunch with Floyd last February ('04). Diane, his wife, had surgery on her foot so she was unable to make it. What a godly and lovely man!

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    3. Thats great Bill that you got to meet up with Floyd, and Jo got to meet him too. Lord willing we will make a visit to my brother who lives in Phoenix. My plan is to meet up with them. Thanks Bill for letting it know it was not Floyd.

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  4. True friends are a treasure beyond measure. I am at an age where most of my closest friends have gone home. Jesus is still a part of my life. He is the reason for keeping that next step going forward.

    Hugs and Blessings

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    1. I have never been to one and I am 78 so I thought I should go to the last one. There was about 140 people in my class and and almost 80 have passed on. I still have my very favorite friend who lives in Ky. a two day drive so we seldom get to see each other. She is the one I would travel to see again before we both head for glory. When I got saved at 35 she was a neighbor that I did not know but our all knowing God knew we needed each other. It's been two years since we seen each other so I might go see her instead of class reunion. I think that would make me happiest.

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